Importance of " Forgiveness" in Islam:

There should not be any doubt that Islam strongly encourages Muslims to practice forgiveness to those who have wronged or committed injustices to them. And hasten towards forgiveness from your Lord and a Paradise as vast as the heavens and the earth, prepared for those mindful of Allah SWT.

Willfully putting aside feelings of resentment toward an individual who has committed a wrong, been unfair or hurtful, or otherwise harmed one in some way. Forgiveness is not equated with reconciliation or excusing another, and it is not merely accepting what happened or ceasing to be angry.

 Forgiveness is the voluntary and intentional act where someone changes the feelings and attitude towards an offense caused by someone else. It's about letting go of negative emotions, like bitterness and wishing the offender well instead.

Forgiveness is very different from approving as approving is failing to see when an action is wrong and needs forgiving. It is also different from excusing which is not holding the offender responsible and forgetting which is removing awareness of the offense. Instead, forgiveness is given to someone who does not deserve it, and you choose to forgive them instead of holding a grudge.

Forgiveness does not mean everything with that person is fine now though, there may still need to be a resolution to keep them in your life. It also does not mean you should forget what happened or that you need to keep that person in your life too. It is all just for you to move on from.the situation.

Quran Kareem  say about forgiveness:

      " If you indeed love Allah SWT, follow me, and Allah Subhan o Ta'ala will love you and will forgive you your sins. Allah SWT is all forgiving, All- compassionate".

Forgiveness in the Qur’an (Qur’an Kareem)

The Qur’an places great emphasis on forgiveness, mercy, and compassion, both from Allah and among human beings. Below are some key verses with clear meanings in English:

1. Allah’s Mercy Is Greater Than All Sins

Surah Az-Zumar (39:53)

“Say, ‘O My servants who have transgressed against themselves, do not despair of the mercy of Allah. Indeed, Allah forgives all sins. Indeed, He is the Most Forgiving, the Most Merciful.’”

Message: No matter how great the sin, Allah’s forgiveness is always available through sincere repentance.

2. Forgiving Others Is Closest to Righteousness

Surah Al-Baqarah (2:237)

“But to forgive is closer to righteousness.”

Message: Forgiveness is a sign of piety and moral excellence.

3. Repel Evil With Good

Surah Fussilat (41:34)

“Good and evil are not equal. Repel evil with what is better, and then the one between whom and you was enmity will become as though he were a close friend.”

Message: Forgiveness and kindness can transform hearts.

4. Allah Loves Those Who Forgive

Surah Aal-Imran (3:134)

“Those who restrain anger and pardon people—and Allah loves the doers of good.”

Message: Controlling anger and forgiving others are qualities loved by Allah.

5. Forgiveness Brings Allah’s Forgiveness

Surah An-Nur (24:22)

“Let them pardon and overlook. Would you not like that Allah should forgive you? And Allah is All-Forgiving, Most Merciful.”

Message: When we forgive others, we invite Allah’s forgiveness for ourselves.

Why is it important to look for forgiveness in Islam:

The Messenger of Allah SWT said: 

            

           "Whoever constantly pray seeks forgiveness, Allah SWT will appoint for him a way of every distress and a relief from every anxiety, and will provide sustenance for him from sources he does not except".

Is forgiveness a must in Islam:

    It is the Sunnah of the Prophet Muhammad SAW forgiveness is a virtue for the brave and the patient and Muslims should strive to be forgiving.

Importance of forgiveness:

Forgiveness is a powerful value that brings peace to individuals, strengthens relationships, and builds a healthy society. Its importance can be understood on spiritual, emotional, and social levels:

1. Spiritual Importance:

Forgiveness brings a person closer to God and earns His pleasure.

It is a key quality of righteous and morally strong people.

When we forgive others, we open the door for divine forgiveness for ourselves.

2. Inner Peace and Emotional Healing:

Holding anger and resentment causes stress and emotional pain.

Forgiveness frees the heart from hatred and bitterness.

It leads to calmness, patience, and mental well-being.

3. Strength of Character:

Forgiving others shows strength, not weakness.

It requires self-control, wisdom, and maturity.

Great leaders and noble personalities are known for their forgiving nature.

4. Improving Relationships:

Forgiveness heals broken relationships and builds trust.

It reduces conflict and promotes harmony in families and communities.

It replaces revenge with understanding and compassion.

5. Social Harmony:

A forgiving society is peaceful and cooperative.

Forgiveness helps stop cycles of hatred and violence.

It encourages justice balanced with mercy.

6. Personal Growth:

Forgiveness helps a person grow spiritually and emotionally.

It teaches empathy and humility.

Letting go of past hurts allows focus on a positive future.

Islamic word for forgiveness:

Istighfaar is the act of seeking Allah's SWT forgiveness for sins, shortcomings and mistakes. It can be verbal, through phases like astaghfirullah ( I seek forgiveness from Allah SWT).

How to forgive someone in Islam:

If we seek forgiveness from Allah SWT ( and we all need Allah's SWT mercy), let us rush into forgiving people. We only give forgiveness that is finite and what Allah SWT can give us is infinite. Allah's SWT mercy is infinite. His forgiveness is infinite.

Some stories about forgiveness in Islam:

He forgave even hind who had caused the murder of his uncle Hamza. After killing him, she had his body multilated and chewed his liver. When she accepted Islam, the Prophet Muhammad SAW even forgave her. In the Quran Kareem " forgiveness" and " mercy" are mentioned around 100 and 200 times.

How many times is forgiveness in the Quran Kareem:

The word " punishment" is repeated 117 times in the Quran Kareem. But the word " forgiveness" is repeated 234 times, exactly 2X more than the other. Because surely Allah SWT is the most forgiving and merciful. May Allah SWT forgive every Muslim and Muslimah , Ameen Allahuma Ameen.

Benefits of forgiveness:

The decision to forgive is yours alone-and chosing to be the bigger person is the ultimate act of self- care. Multiple studies have shown that people who find it in their hearts to forgive have lower levels of anxiety and depression as well as stronger immune systems and improved heart health.

Forgiveness offers powerful benefits for mental, emotional, physical, and even social well-being. Here’s a clear breakdown:

🌱 Emotional & Mental Benefits

Reduces stress, anger, and resentment

Letting go of grudges eases emotional burden.

Improves mental health

Linked to lower rates of anxiety, depression, and rumination.

Increases inner peace and happiness

Frees emotional energy for positive experiences.

Strengthens emotional resilience

Helps you cope better with future challenges.

Physical Health Benefits

Lowers blood pressure and heart rate

Reduces risk of stress-related illnesses

Improves sleep quality

Boosts immune system functioning

 Relationship & Social Benefits

Repairs and strengthens relationships

Improves communication and trust

Encourages empathy and compassion

Reduces conflict and hostility

Personal Growth Benefits

Promotes self-awareness and maturity

Encourages letting go of the past

Builds emotional intelligence

Empowers personal freedom (you’re no longer controlled by the hurt).

Importances of forgiving others:

Overall, forgiveness is important for emotional well being , restoring relationships, 

Aspects of forgiveness:

• Receiving forgiveness from God.
• Asking forgiveness of others.
• Forgiving others.

Types of forgiveness:

The four kinds of forgiveness are:

    Supernatural ( divine, religious, social,and self- forgiveness). These are closely inter related, and all are necessary for a full experience of forgiveness.

Forgiveness can be understood in several types or forms, depending on who is forgiving, what is being forgiven, and how it happens. Here’s a clear, commonly used breakdown:

1. Self-Forgiveness

Letting go of guilt, shame, or self-blame for your own mistakes.

Involves accepting responsibility without ongoing self-punishment.

Important for healing, growth, and mental health.

2. Interpersonal Forgiveness

Forgiving another person who has hurt you.

a. Emotional Forgiveness

Releasing anger, resentment, or bitterness.

Happens internally, even if the relationship doesn’t continue.

b. Decisional Forgiveness

A conscious choice to treat the offender with civility or compassion.

Feelings may take longer to change.

3. Conditional Forgiveness

Forgiveness offered only if the offender apologizes, shows remorse, or makes amends.

Common in relationships where trust matters.

4. Unconditional Forgiveness

Forgiving without expecting apology, change, or reconciliation.

Done for personal peace rather than restoring the relationship.

5. Situational Forgiveness

Forgiving circumstances rather than a person (e.g., illness, accidents, fate).

Helps reduce helplessness and anger toward life events.

6. Divine or Spiritual Forgiveness

Forgiveness granted by a higher power (in religious contexts).

Often linked with repentance and moral accountability.

7. Legal or Formal Forgiveness

Pardon or clemency granted by an authority (e.g., government or institution).

Removes punishment but may not imply emotional forgiveness.

8. Reconciliatory Forgiveness

Forgiveness that restores the relationship.

Requires trust rebuilding, accountability, and mutual effort.

9. Partial Forgiveness

Letting go of some resentment while still maintaining boundaries.

A realistic and healthy stage for many people.

Value of forgiveness in Islam:

Forgiveness holds Importance in Islam, shaping the way Muslims interact with one another and with Allah SWT. It is considered a virtue that strengthens relationships, promotes inner peace, and ensures spiritual growth. 

Forgiveness holds a very high and central value in Islam. It is considered a sign of strength, faith, and moral excellence, and it plays a key role in both personal character and social harmony.

1. Forgiveness is an Attribute of Allah:

One of Allah’s most beautiful names is Al-Ghafūr (The Most Forgiving) and Ar-Rahīm (The Most Merciful). Muslims are encouraged to reflect these divine qualities in their own behavior.

“And My Mercy encompasses all things.”

(Qur’an 7:156)

2. Allah Loves Those Who Forgive:

The Qur’an repeatedly praises those who restrain anger and forgive others:

“…those who control anger and pardon people. And Allah loves the doers of good.”

(Qur’an 3:134)

3. Forgiveness Brings Spiritual Reward:

Forgiving others is seen as a means of earning Allah’s forgiveness and reward in the Hereafter:

“Let them pardon and overlook. Would you not like that Allah should forgive you?”

(Qur’an 24:22)

4. The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ as a Model of Forgiveness:

The Prophet ﷺ demonstrated extraordinary forgiveness, even toward those who persecuted him. A famous example is the forgiveness of the people of Makkah after years of oppression.

He ﷺ said:

“The strong person is not the one who can overpower others, but the one who controls himself when angry.”

(Bukhari & Muslim)

5. Forgiveness Promotes Social Peace:

Islam encourages forgiveness to prevent hatred, revenge, and division within society, while still allowing justice when necessary.

“The recompense for an evil is an evil like it, but whoever forgives and makes reconciliation, his reward is with Allah.”

(Qur’an 42:40)

6. Forgiveness Does Not Mean Accepting Injustice:

Islam balances forgiveness with justice. A person has the right to seek justice, but forgiveness is considered better when it leads to reconciliation and personal peace.

How do you gain forgiveness in Islam:

It is from the immense mercy of Allah SWT that minor sins are forgiven readily through virtually every good deed and act of worship.

In Islam, gaining forgiveness is always possible, no matter how serious the sin, as long as a person sincerely turns back to Allah. This process is called tawbah (repentance). The Qur’an repeatedly emphasizes that Allah is Most Forgiving, Most Merciful.

The steps to gain forgiveness in Islam

1. Feel sincere regret (nadam)

You must genuinely feel remorse for the sin—not just fear of consequences, but sadness for having disobeyed Allah.

“Regret is repentance.” (Hadith – Ibn Mājah)

2. Stop the sin immediately

True repentance requires leaving the sinful action as soon as you realize it.

3. Make a firm intention not to return to it:

You must sincerely resolve not to repeat the sin, even if you later struggle again. Allah judges the sincerity of the intention.

4. Ask Allah directly for forgiveness:

You do not need an intermediary. Speak to Allah in your own words or use established supplications, such as:

Astaghfirullāh (I seek Allah’s forgiveness)

Sayyid al-Istighfār (the best supplication for forgiveness)

“O Allah, You are my Lord… forgive me, for none forgives sins except You.” (Bukhārī)

5. If the sin involved another person, restore their rights:

Return stolen property

Apologize or seek forgiveness

Clear one’s name if harm was done

Without this, repentance is incomplete.

6. Increase good deeds

Good deeds erase bad ones by Allah’s mercy.

“Indeed, good deeds erase bad deeds.” (Qur’an 11:114)

Examples:

1.Prayer

2.Charity

3.Fasting

4. Helping others

5.Reading Qur’an

Important principles to remember

Allah forgives all sins, even major ones, if repentance is sincere

“Do not despair of the mercy of Allah. Indeed, Allah forgives all sins.” (Qur’an 39:53)

Repentance is accepted until death and before the sun rises from the west (a sign of the Last Day).

Repeating a sin does not mean Allah stops forgiving, as long as repentance remains sincere.

A simple repentance you can do no.

Pray two rak‘ahs (optional but recommended)

Admit the sin to Allah

Ask forgiveness with humility

Make du‘ā’ for strength not to return to it.

What do Muslims say when they want forgiveness:

Seeking forgiveness is usually done by saying " Astaghfarirullah" or the longer version " Astaghfarirullaha" rabbi wa atubu ilayhi" . As a beloved Sunnah, the Prophet Muhammad SAW would say "ov Astaghfirullah" more  than 100 times daily, and this simple but powerful Dua is one of the best Duas for forgiveness.

I seek refuge in you from the worst of what done. I fully admit to you your blessings upon me, and I fully admit to you all my sins.

Powerful prayer for forgiveness:

Have mercy on me,  O God, according to your unfailing love; according to your great compassion blot out my transgressions. Wash away all my sin. For I know my transgressions, and my sin is always before me.

Promises of forgiveness:

" I will not dwell on this incident. " I will not being up this incident again and use it against you ". " I will not let this incident stand between us or hinder our personal relationship".

Here are key biblical promises of forgiveness, expressed clearly and with their references. If you had a different tradition or purpose in mind (prayer, study, encouragement), let me know.

God’s promises of forgiveness

God forgives completely

“If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” — 1 John 1:9

Forgiveness removes guilt and record of sin

“I will forgive their wickedness and will remember their sins no more.” — Jeremiah 31:34

Forgiveness is deep and total

“As far as the east is from the west, so far has he removed our transgressions from us.” — Psalm 103:12

God is eager to forgive

“Let the wicked forsake their ways… for he will freely pardon.” — Isaiah 55:7

Mercy triumphs over failure

“The Lord our God is merciful and forgiving, even though we have rebelled against him.” — Daniel 9:9

Promises through Christ

Forgiveness through Jesus

“In him we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of sins.” — Ephesians 1:7

No condemnation remains

“There is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.” — Romans 8:1

Grace covers repeated failure

“Where sin increased, grace increased all the more.” — Romans 5:20

Promises tied to forgiving others

God forgives as we forgive

“If you forgive others… your heavenly Father will also forgive you.” — Matthew 6:14

Mercy brings mercy

“Forgive, and you will be forgiven.”

Stages of forgiveness:

Forgiveness has four stages:

Hate 

Hurt

Heal

Come together 

1. Acknowledging the Hurt:

You honestly name what happened and how it affected you

No minimizing, denying, or spiritual bypassing

Pain, anger, grief, or betrayal are recognized

“Something wrong was done to me.”

2. Allowing the Emotions:

You permit yourself to feel anger, sadness, confusion, or disappointment

Emotions are expressed safely (journaling, prayer, talking)

This prevents repression and bitterness

“My feelings are valid.”

3. Choosing to Forgive:

Forgiveness begins with a decision, not a feeling

You choose to release the right to revenge

This step may need to be repeated

“I am willing to forgive, even if it’s hard.”

4. Understanding the Offender (Not Excusing):

You try to see the offender as human, limited, or broken

This does not justify the harm or remove responsibility

Compassion may begin to grow

“Their actions came from brokenness, not my worth.”

5. Releasing the Debt:

You let go of the expectation that they must “pay you back” emotionally

The story loses its emotional charge

Rumination decreases

“I release them from owing me.”

6. Reframing the Story:

You integrate the experience into your life narrative

Growth, resilience, or judgement may emerge

The wound becomes part of your story, not your identity

“This hurt shaped me, but it does not define me.”

7. Finding Peace or Freedom:

Emotional neutrality or peace replaces intensity

You retrieve inner freedom and energy

Forgiveness becomes stable

“I am free, regardless of what they do.”

Why is forgiveness so powerful:

Research shows that forgiveness is linked to lower levels of depression, anxiety, stress , post- traumatic stress disorder and hostility. It can also lead to higher self- esteem, healthier relationships, and greater life satisfaction. It's likely that everyone has been hurt by someone's actions or words.

Forgiveness in Islam - what does Quran Kareem and Hadith say about forgiveness:

There are many published articles out there discussing forgiveness in Islam. Our fellow Muslims are tangled with questions or forgiving others. There are all intriguing questions our fellow Muslims need to know. As a united ummah, we are encouraged to forgive others who have wronged. Even when life is filled with betrayal and distrust we can never escape from, Islam encourages forgiveness.

It might seem unfair to deny our feelings, conceal and forgive them instead or seeking vengeance and holding a grudge against them. Even Hazrat Yusuf had to face his own blood brothers who left him in a well on his own. However, there are many virtues of forgiveness in Islam, and it is even one of the Sunnahs the Prophet.

Here are some Quranic verses about forgiveness:

Surah Az-Zumar (39:53)

Arabic:

قُلْ يَا عِبَادِيَ الَّذِينَ أَسْرَفُوا عَلَىٰ أَنفُسِهِمْ لَا تَقْنَطُوا مِن رَّحْمَةِ اللَّهِ ۚ إِنَّ اللَّهَ يَغْفِرُ الذُّنُوبَ جَمِيعًا ۚ إِنَّهُ هُوَ الْغَفُورُ الرَّحِيمُ

English:

Say, “O My servants who have transgressed against themselves, do not despair of the mercy of Allah. Indeed, Allah forgives all sins. Indeed, He is the Most Forgiving, the Most Merciful.”

Urdu:

کہہ دو: اے میرے بندو جنہوں نے اپنی جانوں پر زیادتی کی ہے! اللہ کی رحمت سے ناامید نہ ہو، بے شک اللہ تمام گناہ معاف کر دیتا ہے، یقیناً وہ بہت بخشنے والا، نہایت رحم والا ہے۔

2. Surah Al-A‘raf (7:199)

Arabic:

خُذِ الْعَفْوَ وَأْمُرْ بِالْعُرْفِ وَأَعْرِضْ عَنِ الْجَاهِلِينَ

English:

Show forgiveness, enjoin what is good, and turn away from the ignorant.

Urdu:

درگزر اختیار کرو، نیکی کا حکم دو، اور جاہلوں سے منہ پھیر لو۔

3. Surah An-Nur (24:22)

Arabic:

وَلْيَعْفُوا وَلْيَصْفَحُوا ۗ أَلَا تُحِبُّونَ أَن يَغْفِرَ اللَّهُ لَكُمْ ۗ وَاللَّهُ غَفُورٌ رَّحِيمٌ

English:

Let them pardon and overlook. Would you not like that Allah should forgive you? And Allah is Most Forgiving, Most Merciful.

Urdu:

اور چاہیے کہ وہ معاف کر دیں اور درگزر کریں۔ کیا تم یہ پسند نہیں کرتے کہ اللہ تمہیں بخش دے؟ اور اللہ بہت بخشنے والا، نہایت رحم والا ہے۔

4. Surah Ash-Shura (42:40)

Arabic:

فَمَنْ عَفَا وَأَصْلَحَ فَأَجْرُهُ عَلَى اللَّهِ ۚ إِنَّهُ لَا يُحِبُّ الظَّالِمِينَ

English:

But whoever forgives and makes reconciliation, his reward is with Allah. Indeed, He does not like the wrongdoers.

Urdu:

پھر جو معاف کر دے اور اصلاح کر لے تو اس کا اجر اللہ کے ذمے ہے۔ بے شک وہ ظالموں کو پسند نہیں کرتا۔

5. Surah Al-Imran (3:134)

Arabic:

وَالْكَاظِمِينَ الْغَيْظَ وَالْعَافِينَ عَنِ النَّاسِ ۗ وَاللَّهُ يُحِبُّ الْمُحْسِنِينَ

English:

Those who restrain anger and pardon people—and Allah loves the doers of good.

Urdu:

جو غصہ پی جانے والے اور لوگوں کو معاف کرنے والے ہیں، اور اللہ نیکی کرنے والوں سے محبت کرتا ہے۔

6. Surah Al-Baqarah (2:286 – part)

Arabic:

رَبَّنَا اغْفِرْ لَنَا وَارْحَمْنَا ۚ أَنتَ مَوْلَانَا

English:

Our Lord, forgive us and have mercy upon us. You are our Protector.

Urdu:

اے ہمارے رب! ہمیں بخش دے اور ہم پر رحم فرما، تو ہی ہمارا کارساز ہے۔

Forgiveness for h Islam: what is the importance of forgiveness:

1. To gain Allah's SWT forgiveness: Reward of forgiveness in Islam:

As Muslims, we have to realize the immense amount of sins we have committed , and one of the ways to expiate those sins is by forgiving others. Although it is a tough thing to do, remember that Allah SWT is all- forgiving and we have to ingrain the virtue of forgiveness Within us to gain his pleasure. Insha Allah.

 

To summarize this concept of forgiveness in Islam, it would be Allah SWT forgive those who forgive. Below Allah SWT mentions about forgiveness in the Quran Kareem:

            " and let them pardon and overlook. Surah Az-Zumar (39:53)

Arabic:

قُلْ يَا عِبَادِيَ الَّذِينَ أَسْرَفُوا عَلَىٰ أَنفُسِهِمْ لَا تَقْنَطُوا مِن رَّحْمَةِ اللَّهِ ۚ إِنَّ اللَّهَ يَغْفِرُ الذُّنُوبَ جَمِيعًا ۚ إِنَّهُ هُوَ الْغَفُورُ الرَّحِيمُ

English:

Say, “O My servants who have transgressed against themselves, do not despair of the mercy of Allah. Indeed, Allah forgives all sins. Indeed, He is the Most Forgiving, the Most Merciful.”

Urdu:

کہہ دو: اے میرے بندو جنہوں نے اپنی جانوں پر زیادتی کی ہے! اللہ کی رحمت سے ناامید نہ ہو، بے شک اللہ تمام گناہ معاف کر دیتا ہے، یقیناً وہ بہت بخشنے والا، نہایت رحم والا ہے۔

2. Surah Al-A‘raf (7:199)

Arabic:

خُذِ الْعَفْوَ وَأْمُرْ بِالْعُرْفِ وَأَعْرِضْ عَنِ الْجَاهِلِينَ

English:

Show forgiveness, enjoin what is good, and turn away from the ignorant.

Urdu:

درگزر اختیار کرو، نیکی کا حکم دو، اور جاہلوں سے منہ پھیر لو۔

3. Surah An-Nur (24:22)

Arabic:

وَلْيَعْفُوا وَلْيَصْفَحُوا ۗ أَلَا تُحِبُّونَ أَن يَغْفِرَ اللَّهُ لَكُمْ ۗ وَاللَّهُ غَفُورٌ رَّحِيمٌ

English:

Let them pardon and overlook. Would you not like that Allah should forgive you? And Allah is Most Forgiving, Most Merciful.

Urdu:

اور چاہیے کہ وہ معاف کر دیں اور درگزر کریں۔ کیا تم یہ پسند نہیں کرتے کہ اللہ تمہیں بخش دے؟ اور اللہ بہت بخشنے والا، نہایت رحم والا ہے۔

4. Surah Ash-Shura (42:40)

Arabic:

فَمَنْ عَفَا وَأَصْلَحَ فَأَجْرُهُ عَلَى اللَّهِ ۚ إِنَّهُ لَا يُحِبُّ الظَّالِمِينَ

English:

But whoever forgives and makes reconciliation, his reward is with Allah. Indeed, He does not like the wrongdoers.

Urdu:

پھر جو معاف کر دے اور اصلاح کر لے تو اس کا اجر اللہ کے ذمے ہے۔ بے شک وہ ظالموں کو پسند نہیں کرتا۔

5. Surah Al-Imran (3:134)

Arabic:

وَالْكَاظِمِينَ الْغَيْظَ وَالْعَافِينَ عَنِ النَّاسِ ۗ وَاللَّهُ يُحِبُّ الْمُحْسِنِينَ

English:

Those who restrain anger and pardon people—and Allah loves the doers of good.

Urdu:

جو غصہ پی جانے والے اور لوگوں کو معاف کرنے والے ہیں، اور اللہ نیکی کرنے والوں سے محبت کرتا ہے۔

6. Surah Al-Baqarah (2:286 – part)

Arabic:

رَبَّنَا اغْفِرْ لَنَا وَارْحَمْنَا ۚ أَنتَ مَوْلَانَا

English:

Our Lord, forgive us and have mercy upon us. You are our Protector.

Urdu:

اے ہمارے رب! ہمیں بخش دے اور ہم پر رحم فرما، تو ہی ہمارا کارساز ہے۔.

Forgiveness in Islam: What is the importance  of forgiveness:

1. To gain Allah's forgiveness: Reward of forgiveness in Islam:

As a Muslims, we have to realize the immense amount of sins we have committed, and one of the ways to expiate those sins is by forgiving others. Although it is a tough thing to do, remember that Allah SWT is all- forgiving and we have to ingrain the virtue of forgiveness Within us to gain his pleasure, insha Allah.

To summarize this concept of forgiveness in Islam, it would be Allah SWT forgive those who forgive. Below Allah SWT mentions about forgiveness in the Quran Kareem:

    " and let them pardon and overlook. Would you not like that Allah SWT should forgive you? And Allah Subhan o Ta'ala forgiving and merciful".

2. Qalbun Saleem lead to Paradise:

Qulbun Saleem means a sound heart or a heart that is free of the burdens of worldly affairs . To have a sound heart means to let go of whatever that is hurting us in this world. A sound heart is made for Allah SWT the merciful and his Messenger and it is not meant to hold so much hurt of this duniya, so it is better for us to rectify our intentions from time to time through daily spiritual  purification.

3. Hadith about forgiving others:

      This is one of the other ways to obtain a sound heart according to this Hadith on forgiveness:

   

    Messenger of Allah SWT said: 

     " The gates of paradise will be opened on Mondays and Thursdays, and every servant who associates nothing with Allah SWT will be forgiven, except for the man who has a grudge against his brother. It will be said: Delay these two until they are reconciled".

    4. It is the Sunnah of our beloved Prophet Muhammad SAW:

      The Prophet Muhammad SAW said:

      " Do not harbour a grudge against one another, nor jealousy, nor enmity, and do not show your backs to one another and become as fellow brothers and slaves of Allah SWT. It is not lawful for a Muslim to avoid speaking with his brother beyond three Days ".

As mentioned in the another Hadith on forgiving others, we see this essential virtue in the sublime character of the Prophet Muhammad SAW. We have heard many prophetic traditions in regards to his unlimited forgiveness and how that attribute eventually results in a rewarding spiritual outcome. Even when non- Muslims disrespect him, he was patient and always kind to them, which led all of those he affected to become virtuous Muslims in the end.

Especially during his bitter experience in Taif, after he lost his beloved uncle and wife, he was then rudely insulted by the city leaders and pelted with stones by the tribe members. Bruised and rejected, with his blood clotting as it leaked onto his sandals, he made the following Dua.

• To you, my Lord.
• Lack of support and the humiliation I am made to receive.
• I complain of my weakness.
• Most compassionate.
• You are the lord of the weak.
• Or to an enemy, you have given power over me?
• As long as you are not displeased with me, 
• I do not care what I face.
• I would however, be much happier with your mercy.
• I seek refuge in the light of your face by which all darkness is dispelled, and both this life and the life to comeare put in their right course against incurring your wrath.
• Everything is powerless without your support.

He never once made Dua to retaliate against the tribesmen who hurt him, but all yh cared was to please Allah SWT and had faith in him. Indeed, forgiveness is a virtue for yh brave and the patient, and we should strive towards becoming forgiving Muslims.

5. Be ready to forgive, for life is a constant test:

Another reason why everyone should be ready to forgive is the fact that the reality of duniya is filled with trials and tribulations. Accepting the tests is considered as accepting the divine decree of Allah SWT the almighty. Accepting the painful incident that had happened to you was meant to be. This can be a gradual process for some, but in some others, a journey of a lifetime. Allah SWT is going to test us through other people too.

Quran Kareem say about forgiveness:

        " And we have made some of you as a trial for others- will you have patience? And ever is your lord, seeing".

6. Nobody is perfect:

The reality is that people are not perfect, and everyone is constantly growing is, how do they grow? They mature through mistakes and experiences in life, which involves other people. They are subjected to making mistakes and commiting sins, so as flawed people ourselves, we cannot put high expectations on people.

Rather than, we should make room for forgiveness like the blessed Prophet Muhammad SAW used to do. Allah SWT the forgiving, the most merciful also forgives his servants who make mistakes , so we should try our best to light  the spirit of forgiving others in Islam.

What are the types of forgiveness:

There are two types of forgiveness which are:

1. Allah's forgiveness:

This type of forgiveness in Islam is between us and the lord of the worlds, and it us not something which has to be done clearly. We can seek forgiveness from Allah SWT from Allah SWT in our own private time, in our rooms, as long as we have a sincere intention and want to change.

2. Human being's forgiveness:

This time of forgiveness is between us and ourselves and other people who we might have hurt or those who have hurt or betrayed us from Any aspect; physical, emotional and even mental pain. Forgiving others in Islam should be done explicitly between the two parties involved.

The Significance of forgiveness in Islam:

It is a Muslim's duty to understand forgiveness and implement it. Islam encourages and promotes sensitivity, protecting Muslim morals, and learning to better themselves through forgiveness. Forgiveness in Islam is seen as  being a better Muslim so it is vital to forgive.

Many Muslims may have questions about forgiveness and how to implement it or need to understand forgiving in Islam. To answer popular questions about forgiveness in Islam and help you learn more about it, we have provided key information about the significance of forgiveness and how you can implement forgiving daily.

Forgiveness in Islam:

Forgiveness in Islam is extremely important for a variety of reasons. It not only helps Muslims move on for the sake of themselves, but it is a Sunnah of the Prophet Muhammad SAW and is looked on favourably by Allah SWT.

Gaining Allah's forgiveness:

Muslims must realize the number of sins they have committed. A way to dispel these sins is by forgiving others for theirs. Even though it is tough, it is vital to remember that Allah SWT is all- forgiving and so, Muslims need to implement that same attitude and forgive to gain his pleasure. Allah SWT forgive those who forgive is a virtue that reminds Muslims of the importance of forgiving others in Islam.

Leads to Paradise:

Forgiveness is one of key aspect of Qalbun Saleem which leads to Paradise. Qalbun Saleem means a sound heart or a heart that is free of the burdens of worldly affairs. To have a sound heart, Muslims need to let go of anything that is hurting them in the world. It is best to rectify intentions through daily spiritual purification rather than holding onto hurt.

It is the Sunnah of the Prophet Muhammad SAW:

The blessed Prophet Muhammad SAW said:

     " Do not harbour a grudge against one another, nor jealousy, nor enmity, and do not show your backs to one another and become as fellow brothers and slaves of Allah SWT. It is not lawful for a Muslim to avoid speaking with his brother beyond three days".

The Prophet Muhammad SAW shows his unlimited forgiveness and how it eventually rewards in a spiritual way. Even when non- Muslims disrespected him, he showed no grudge. He was patient and always kind, leading to those who disrespected him.to become honorable Muslims. Forgiveness is a virtue for the brave and the patient and Muslims should strive to be forgiving.

Nobody is perfect:

With Islam and forgiveness, it is seen as nobody is perfect and everyone is always growing as a person. People mature through mistakes and experiences that always involve other people. Everyone can make mistakes and commit sins so Muslims, who also have flaws, should not put high expectations on anyone else. Instead, they should forgive as the Prophet Muhammad SAW and Allah Subhan o Ta'ala the most merciful did.

Life is a test:

Another reason why forgiveness in Islam is important is the fact that life is filled with tests. Accepting these is considered as accepting the divine decree of Allah SWT. Accepting any wrongdoings that happens to Muslims is meant to occur as Allah paak sends them these through other people as well.

Forgiveness Islamic quotes:

Forgiving in Islam is prevalent through Hadith in the Quran Kareem and us the word of Allah SWT and the Prophet Muhammad SAW. Forgiveness is shown throughout Islam and the importance is told to Muslims via the Quran Kareem, encouraging Muslims to practice forgiveness.

     " And let them pardon and overlook. Would you not like that Allah SWT should forgive you? And Allah Subhan o Ta'ala is forgiving and merciful".

This above quote shows that Allah SWT is forgiving and merciful and so Muslims should reflect this same attitude.

The Messenger of Allah SWT said:

   " The gates of paradise will be opened in Mondays and Thursdays, and every servant who associates nothing with Allah SWT will be forgiven, except for the man who has a grudge against his brother. It will be said: Delay these two until they are reconciled, delay these two until they are reconciled".

Forgiveness Islamic quotes:

Forgiving in Islam is prevalent through Hadith in the Quran Kareem and is the word of Allah SWT and the blessed Prophet Muhammad SAW. Forgiveness is shown throughout Islam and the importance is told to Muslims via the Quran Kareem, encouraging Muslims to practice forgiveness. Below are some forgiveness Islamic quotes that show why Muslims must learn to forgive the wrongdoings of others.

       " And let them pardon and overlook. Would you like that Allah SWT should forgive you? And Allah Subhan o Ta'ala is forgiving and merciful ".

The Messenger of Allah SWT said:

   " The gates of paradise will be opened on Mondays and Thursdays, and every servant who associates nothing with Allah SWT will be forgiven, except for the man who has a grudge against his brother. It will be said: Delay these two until they are reconciled; delay these two until they are reconciled".

Islam forgiveness prayer:

There are multiple Dua's for Muslims to recite to seek forgiveness and forgive others. Recite some of the Islam forgiveness prayers daily to let go of hardships and wrongdoings and seek forgiveness. Some prayers you can do are:.

   " Our Lord! Surely we believe, therefore forgive us our faults and save us from the chastisement of the fire".

"Forgive me, for there us none who may forgive sins but you".

Types of forgiveness:

There are two types of forgiveness:

Allah's SWT forgiveness:

This type of forgiving in Islam in between Muslims and the Lord and it is not something that has to be done clearly. Muslims can seek forgiveness from Allah SWT in there own time as long as they have a sincere intention and desire to change.

Human beings forgiveness for others and self:

This type of forgiveness is between Muslims, themselves and other people who they may have hutt or those who hurt them. Forgiving others in Islam and seeking forgiveness from others and for yourself should be clearly done between the parties who are involved.

How to forgive in a psychological way:

Forgiving others in Islam in a psychological way can be difficult but there are steps you can take to forgive.

Acknowledge what has happened:

Take a breather and reflect on the situation that has happened. The first step to forgiveness in Islam is to acknowledge what happened and accept it. You should assess how you were affected and ask questions to gain an understanding on the incident. 

How to ask for forgiveness in Islam and forgive others:

Asking for forgiveness in Islam helps yo clear any wrongdoings and sins you may have committed and allows you to reap rewards. Similarly, forgiving others in Islam is just as important to have a pure heart and letting go of negative feelings. There are certain ways you can seek forgiveness and forgive others according to the Islamic perspective.

Make Dua for yourself and for others:

Forgiveness in Islam is meant to be selfless and liberating, so it someone has hurt you very much where words can't describe your pain, then making Dua for yourself and for those who hurt you is the best way to relieve the pain.

Gain information through lectures:

If you are struggling to understand forgiveness in Islam, then it is ideal to listen to lectures that relate to Hadith on forgiveness. When you listen to the stories of the Prophet Muhammad SAW and how he forgave the horrible acts of others, you will feel more inclined to follow him and apply forgiveness in your life. It will also help you to understand why forgiveness is so important and encourage you to start forgiving and seek forgiveness.

Forgiveness in Islam is vital to please Allah SWT and to help Muslims let go of hurt, pain and anger, allowing them to have pure hearts. Ensuring to forgive others and seeking forgiveness allows Muslims to move  on from situations and reap rewards in life and in the afterlife.

Forgiveness in Islam:

An attributes which has received due attention in Islam and which has been extensively discussed in the Quran Kareem, Hadiths and narrations relates to the issues of " forgiveness" signifies overlooking the offense and sin of a person who has purposefully or mistakenly done you wrong, such as insulting you by his words, beating you up or exacting your property. Ignoring all these issues and not punishing the person who has committed this wrong is  called " forgiveness". 

Forgiveness is of two types:

• We forgive someone when we are unable to take revenge. This mind of pardon is, in fact, equal to patience and forbearance and not to forgiveness. In other words, it is a kind of helplessness and weakness.
• Hazrat Ali said: the most deserving person to pardon others is the one who is most powerful in punishing others.
• In his last will while addressing Hareth Hamedani, Ali A.S stated: " Subdue your anger and forgive a guilty person while you are in power".
• When you gain power over the enemy, consider forgiving him as a sign of your gratitude for your power.
• Imam Sadiq A.S stated: " Pardoning others while one is in authority is consistent with the policy of the moderate people".

What does the Quran Kareem say about forgiveness:

Forgiveness is a central theme in Islam, beautifully woven into the Quran Kareem. It's a concept that not only defines the relationship between individuals but also reflects Allah's SWT boundless mercy towards his creation. In our daily lives, we seek forgiveness from one another and from Allah SWT, hoping to receive his mercy and grace. But what does the Quran Kareem actually say about forgiveness and how does it guide us in practicing thus viral virtue?

Allah's Mercy is greater than our sins.

One of the most heartening teachings in the Quran Kareem is that Allah's mercy surpasses any wrongdoing. Even when we feel weighted down by our mistakes, we are reassured by verses like:

    " Say , O my servants who have transgressesed against themselves do not despair of the mercy of Allah SWT. Indeed, Allah SWT forgives all sins. Indeed, it is he who is the forgiving the merciful".

This verse is a lifeline for anyone feeling hopeless. It shows that no matters the magnitude of our sins, Allah's forgiveness is greater . The Quran Kareem encourages believers believers not to fall into despair, but rather to turn to Allah SWT with sincere repentance.

The importance of forgiveness others:

Just as we seek Allah's SWT forgiveness, we are also reminded of the importance of extending that forgiveness to others. Life can be full of misunderstandings and conflicts , but the Quran Kareem emphasizes that peace and unity are nurtured through forgiveness.

      " And let them pardon and overlook. Would you not like that Allah SWT should forgive you? And Allah Subhan o Ta'ala is forgiving and merciful".

This verse not only instructs us to forgive but frames it as as act of mercy that echoes Allah's own forgiveness towards us. By pardoning those who have wronged us, we are participating in a divine practice, one that can strengthen relationship and heal wounds.

Repentance and seeking forgiveness:

Forgiveness in Islam is closely tied to the act of repentance or tawbah. Allah SWT consistently invites his servants to turn back to him, no matter how far they have stayed. The Quran Kareem emphasizes that those who repent sincerely will be forgiven.

And those who when they commit an immorality or wrong themselves remember Allah SWT and seek forgiveness for their sins- and who can forgive sins except Allah SWT?--- do not persist in what they have done while they know".

This verse shows that true forgiveness from Allah comes we not only regret our actions but also resolve to avoid repeating the mistakes. It's a process of self- reflection, humility and commitment to improvement.

The role of patience in forgiveness:

Forgiving others is not always easy, especially when we have been deeply hurt. However, the Quran Kareem reassures us that patience that patience in such situations is rewarded.

" And whoever is patient and forgives - indeed that is of the matters of resolved".

Forgiveness on the day of judgement:

The Quran Kareem also teaches us about the ultimate significance of forgiveness on the day of judgement. It is not just a practice for this life but one that carries external weight.

" On the day, neither wealth nor children will benefit, but not one who comes to Allah SWT with a sound heart".

A " sound heart" is one that is free of grudges, filled with forgiveness And purified through sincere repentance. Seeking and offering forgiveness prepares us spiritually for the afterlife, ensuring that we return to Allah SWT with hearts at peace.

Forgiveness in the Quran Kareem is represented as a divine gift and a human duty. Allah's SWT mercy is Boundless offering hope yo all who seek his forgiveness. At the same time, we are encouraged to mirror this mercy by forgiving others, nurturing a spirit of kindness and unity within ourselves and our communities. By practicing peace in our relationships, ensuring that we walk the path of righteousness both in this life and the next.

What if I repeat a sin again?

One of the tricks of Shatan is to discourage people from repenting. Shatan knows Allah SWT forgives often. Therefore, Shatan tricks you with whispers of, " You are repenting again? You think Allah SWT will forgive you?".

Shatan introduces doubt in Allah's SWT forgiveness. But, we should not doubt the forgiver".

Will Allah SWT actually forgive me?

The reality is that we won't know for sure if Allah SWT has forgiven us until we meet him on the day of judgement. We must our mountains of sin forgiven simply out of his mercy.

Every few pages of the Quran Kareem highlights a merciful Allah SWT.

The Prophet Muhammad SAW said:

  

       " When Allah SWT completed the creation, he wrote in his book with him upon the throne: Verily, My mercy prevails over My wrath".  

Conclusion:

Forgiveness holds a central place in Islam as a reflection of faith, moral strength, and loyalty to Allah. Islam teaches that forgiving others promotes peace, harmony, and compassion within society, while also purifying the heart of anger and resentment. By practicing forgiveness, Muslims follow the example of Allah, who is Most Forgiving, and the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him), who showed mercy even to those who wronged him. Ultimately, forgiveness strengthens relationships, nurtures spiritual growth, and brings believers closer to Allah’s mercy and reward.